in my old age, my favourite thing to do on NYE is to stay in and snuggle w/ my spouse and our dogs

Blasting West End Girl on mid volume because I am old and my ears will suffer if I actually blast it at full volume 😂

When my pug is asleep, he’s at his cutest 😂

playing around with alt-protocols (old school) like TELNET and GOPHER. Gemini is fun too but lol, wow. text based CLI for nerds! (like me)

New Post: https://chubsos.bearblog.dev/hot-takes-in-2025/ I shitpost lmao HOT TAKES

Super eepy. Naptime for everyone

Someone trying to get to know me asked what I was looking for and I didn't know how to respond b/c... de-centering romance.

My number one new "go to" present for my friends is an entry-level fountain pen (usually a Pilot Kakuno.)

I got at least six hours of sleep, which I'll take. I love doing nothing!

help I can't sleep. insominia strikes again!

New blog post about how I fucked up my own website: https://chubsos.bearblog.dev/coding-challenges/

Code might be poetry, but I'm about to throw the entire manuscript out of the window soon b/c it's annoying me

2026 needs to be the year of working towards a finished manuscript lmao

It's fun to sit back and do absolutely jack shit. :') And that's what's happening rn.

Sometimes I forget that polyamory is relationships on hard mode. And that I would just rather be left alone lmaooo

So many spammers. Need to find a way to get them off my email bc they used my domain bandwidth!

Therapy is crazy, in that I keep meta-analyzing myself in the middle and my therapist just sits there going "Yeah, you're doing my job." LOL

Early morning meditation and hojicha. Also journalling, then therapy. :') Mondays are always the most emotionally exhausting/softest ones.